Dear Midwife or Health Care Provider,
The following is our plan for our baby’s birth, preferably in water in hospital.
Before Our Baby’s Birth
If there is any research you would like me to participate in, please provide details as far as possible in advance of the birth OR I prefer not to be involved in research.
I am planning a vaginal hospital water birth without intervention, but, should circumstances dictate, I am willing to consider other options so long as I am fully informed of the advantages and disadvantages.
During Our Baby’s Birth
1st Stage
I would like to remain at home for as long as I feel comfortable.
I would like to be attended by the community midwife at home.
When I go into labour, I would like to be able to arrange with the hospital an appropriate time for me to arrive and use water upon my arrival in hospital.
If a birthing pool is not available in hospital, I would like to be able to bring my own or use a back-up pool the hospital will provide.
My partner can be involved in setting this up, but I’d prefer if hospital staff could take charge of allocating space and ensuring the erection and filling of the pool goes as smoothly as possible.
I am happy to discuss these plans with the delivery suite manager prior to my labour.
In hospital I would like my husband / partner / doula / friend / children to be present. I would like my privacy and dignity to be respected at all times.
I would like my partner to be able to join me in the pool if I choose at the time OR I wish to remain on my own in the pool with my birth supporters outside the pool.
I wish to have music of my choice playing.
I wish to have no non-essential talk by health care providers.
I would like to have the lighting dimmed to suit my needs.
I would like to remain as active as possible, finding the best positions for myself and changing these as I wish.
I would like to try and rest between contractions where possible.
I would like monitoring of the baby to be kept to a minimum unless there is cause for concern.
I would like any proposed intervention e.g. breaking waters, acceleration, ventouse to be explained and discussed first and ideally to be kept to a minimum.
I would like information about any proposed medication before receiving it, including the purpose, potential side effects on me / the baby and options on timing e.g. before or after the baby is born.
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Pain Relief
I would like to cope without pain relief OR I would like to use entonox / gas and air AND/OR a TENS machine AND/OR homeopathic pain relief AND/OR pethidine.
I would like to use massage AND/OR move around AND/OR bathe and be given lots of support to help with this.
I would like to use the water birth pool. I wish to use for 1st / 2nd stage.
I plan to use an "all fours" position OR squatting OR other position to help with pain relief.
Advice will be welcome, and I am open to considering other pain relief options if necessary.
Transition
I wish to be very centred on myself at this stage and to have no intrusion.
Gentle support and firm guidance will be appreciated.
Information on progress and caring support will be helpful.
I will probably be in an "all fours" OR upright OR semi reclining position.
2nd Stage
I would like to deliver my baby in water OR I wish to exit the pool and deliver my baby on land.
I would like to find my own comfortable position for pushing. This is likely to be an all fours OR upright OR leaning over the edge of the pool.
I wish to know when the head is crowning although I may be able to know this myself.
I wish to feel the baby’s head AND/OR see it in a mirror.
I will appreciate advice and guidance at this time to guard against too quick a delivery giving the perineum time to fan out thus (hopefully) preventing a tear.
We plan to take photographs / video the birth.
I do not wish to have an episiotomy unless vital and I or my partner agree OR I prefer an episiotomy to a tear.
I wish the baby to be delivered onto my belly OR I wish to hold my baby straight away OR I wish for the baby to be washed and then given to me.
We would like to discover the sex of our baby ourselves.
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3rd Stage
I wish to deliver the placenta naturally OR I wish to have an actively managed 3rd stage.
I wish the baby to suckle to encourage 3rd Stage.
I wish to exit the pool to deliver the placenta OR I wish to stay in the pool to deliver the placenta
I wish the cord to remain attached until it stops pulsating.
I only wish cord traction to be used if syntometrine has been administered.
If there are signs of haemorrhage, I will have IV ergometrine as necessary.
My partner would like to cut the cord.
We would like our baby to stay with one of us at all times.
We would like to be left alone with our baby.
We would like to see the placenta and have it explained to us.
We would like to be consulted if our baby needs to go to special care.
Multiple birth
We would like both / all of the babies to be taken to special care together.
If one baby needs special care and the other(s) don’t we would like the well baby(ies) to stay with us until we go.
I wish to breast feed as soon as is appropriate.
We do OR do not consent to a Vitamin K injection.
Tears
I hope to avoid this and will appreciate support to adopt positions to minimise tears.
If one occurs I would prefer not to be stitched unless it is essential to healing OR I prefer to be stitched
If stitching is necessary I do want a local anaesthetic to be well administered prior to stitching OR I want Gas and Air on hand for when I am being stitched.
Emergencies
I and/or my husband / partner will discuss all eventualities as they arise.
Please share any concerns with us as soon as they arise.
It will help us to know the answers to these questions:
1.What is wrong?
2.What do you suggest and why?
3.What would be the possible outcomes with and without this intervention be?
4.How much time do we have to make a decision?
5.Are there any other courses of action open to us?
We will be guided by balanced, informative advice.
In the event that assisted delivery is necessary I prefer ventouse to forceps.
In the event that a caesarean section is necessary I would like to have a spinal OR general anaesthetic.
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In The Post-Natal Ward
We do not want our baby to be given any artificial milk.
I intend to breastfeed on demand OR I intend to bottle feed on demand.
I would like our baby with me at all times unless I request otherwise.
I would like to be present when our baby has a nappy change or bath.
We would like our other children to visit as soon as possible after the birth.
I would like to be consulted as to when I should be discharged from hospital.
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